I can be a total bitch sometimes because I see everything filed either as logical or not. For example, bumping into ex-classmates or colleagues I was never close with. Most of the time, I don't give a damn. If I didn't care about you then, I probably wouldn't now either. It's weird exchanging numbers (Usually I won't be the one asking for them. Yeah how unfriendly). I would find it illogical because I probably won't keep in touch anyway. But I guess it is a social thing human beings do to maintain healthy social relationships. Fascinating but I know who I wouldn't be inviting to my wedding anyway. Why waste time?
Anyway I have a dear friend who is very heartbroken. Let's call her Kitty. Kitty has been inconsolable for months because her ex made her feel very unwanted. Thereafter, somehow her self-esteem took a huge beating too. She thinks it is because she isn't pretty enough. She is confused why guys keep telling her she is great and all that but just don't want to 'get with her'.
I understand how she feels. Sometimes I feel very unpretty too and if you are stuck with the wrong guy, he can make you feel 100 times worst. When I was down, I was sceptical too when everyone tells me Time heals all wounds. Well, it does and luckily for me, I did meet someone else sweeter and whom made me feel better about myself. Kitty doesn't buy that stuff. She is only 20 years old but so bitter. There will be another one who comes along but Kitty retorted that she only wants the last one. (Apparently he was pretty cute). She wanted her 'cute' ex, not Mr Nice Guy.
I understand. When I was 20, did I care who treated me well? No. I only wanted to date cute guys and guys wayyyy taller than me. I guess being
Hmmm I need an add-on. Geeks who also smell of Chanel colognes are sooooo desirable. *floats to Happy Land*
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REGINA!!!
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yup. i still ogle at pretty boys and big bad rock dudes (also secretly still hoping that i can date someone from mayday some day) but hahaha geeks are way more reliable. sigh... too bad i hardly get to see my geek... long distance relationships can be so hard. :(
I did meet someone else sweeter and whom made me feel better about myself.
Wait, who is this?!?!
And yeah, long distance is hard.
What about a cute guy who also happens to be a geek? Just a thought? Anyone?
Le sigh. yeah Jake Gylenhall (whatever his surname is). So hot. Yet so geek.
hey babe just read your blog...din know that you wished me happy b'day in here. Thank you thank you!!! Yeah geeks have this thing called "natural charm" in them and brains!!! YES! brains!!!!
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